Hey there! As someone who has been in your corner, working closely with women on their career journeys, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing the incredible determination and potential that our female workforce brings to the table. It’s like being a supportive girlfriend, offering guidance and support to help you achieve your dreams. Today, I want to share some insights that have come from these experiences – ones that I believe can help you advance your career and find the path to success.

It’s all about merging what you love with what you do well and discovering that dream job where these things come together!

Self-Discovery: The First Step to Success

The journey to your dream career begins with self-discovery. Take some time to reflect on your passions, strengths, and values. What excites you? What skills come naturally to you? What values do you hold dear? Think of this process as a heart-to-heart chat with your best friend. By understanding yourself, you can align your career choices with what truly matters to you. This self-awareness is the foundation upon which your dream career can be built.

Set Clear Goals

Just like girlfriends plan their future adventures together, setting clear and specific career goals is paramount. What position do you aspire to hold? What kind of work environment do you thrive in? By defining your goals, you’ll be better equipped to make strategic decisions that steer you toward your dream job. Remember, your goals are your roadmap to success.

Continuous Learning

In today’s ever-evolving job market, staying relevant and competitive requires a commitment to continuous learning. It’s like the times you and your girlfriends decide to take up a new hobby together. Invest in acquiring new skills and knowledge that are relevant to your field. Consider mentorship programs, workshops, or online courses as your girlfriends cheering you on. Empower yourself with the tools and knowledge needed to excel in your chosen career path.

Networking and Mentorship

Building a strong professional network is vital, just like the support network of friends. Attend industry events, conferences, and join local and online networking groups. Seek out mentors who can guide you and offer valuable insights, much like the advice your closest friends provide. These connections can open doors and provide support on your journey to your dream career.

Embrace Change

To find that perfect career that aligns with your passions and skills, you may need to embrace change. Be open to pivoting, taking calculated risks, and exploring new opportunities – just as you’d encourage your friends to seize new adventures. Sometimes, it’s when we step outside our comfort zones that we discover the path to our dream job.

Persistence and Resilience

The road to your dream career may not always be smooth, but remember that your girlfriends always have your back. There will be challenges and setbacks along the way. However, resilience and persistence are key to overcoming obstacles. Believe in yourself and your abilities, and keep pushing forward, just like the unwavering support of your closest friends.


In conclusion, advancing in your career and achieving your dream job is an attainable goal. It’s about merging your passions with your strengths and remaining open to opportunities, much like a heart-to-heart conversation with your girlfriends. Take the time to understand yourself, set clear goals, invest in learning, nurture your network, and stay persistent. You have the power to make your career aspirations a reality. Your journey to success begins now.

Wishing you success and fulfillment in your quest for the dream career you deserve. Remember, we’re here to support you every step of the way, just like a loyal girlfriend.

Contributing Author:
Margaret Zanel
Co-Founder & Partner 
Wentworth Strategy Group